Dating a borderline male
Minor betrayals are by no means deal-breakers, but they can definitely ruffle our feathers and hurt our feelings.But people with traits of BPD experience the minor betrayals in the same way we experience the major ones.Being a therapist and a woman, I have seen dysfunctional females in action, and I know what they do and how they think. Quick help guide: Look for abandonment and victim issues, extreme moods, lack of empathy, no conscience, know-it-all, self-absorption, always blames others. The madness happens when some poor man enters the picture like a hungry fish in a lake. Allows you to hang on, pay for things and keep your hopes up. When we don’t, our relationship partners experience our selfish actions as a mild form of betrayal of our relationship agreement.
Most people imagine that this kind of fear centers around the more obvious forms of betrayal such as infidelity or relationship abandonment.
Note: I recently wrote a list of red-flag warnings for women about men, and I promised equal time to help men. Woman have brought men misery, ecstasy, and everything in between for millions of years, and that is not likely to change anytime soon. So there's the short list, fellows - I truly hope it helps.
The only way men could possibly make it through the dating scene in one piece is to learn the art of how to choose a woman who is most likely to enhance his life over the long haul, avoid the ones who are purveyors of pain, and I am here to help. At least one in 10 women has one, so educate yourself - the most common ones are Borderline Personality Disorder, Narcissism, Sociopath, and Dependent Personality Disorder. It breaks my heart to see a man in my office who feels like a complete fool after having been duped by a woman who used and abused him in her own self interest.
To make things easier, I have divided the red flag issues into different departments ...
you can thank me later: The Department of Immaturity, Shallowness and Dependency 1.