Dating rules girls today
There are oh so many ways that lesbians can have bad boundaries, but right here I want to focus on one: DO NOT bring a date to a girl bar or a girl party.Your date does not need to meet your ex, or all your friends, the first few times you go out.I know it’s hard, but resist the urge to merge for at least a month.Putting someone in a potentially socially awkward situation from the get-go is zero sexy.
Maintain the momentum that got you here, otherwise it’s like dating blue balls…no one wants that.
Ideally something that doesn’t pertain to being a lesbian, girl parties, the people you know in common or your ex girlfriend.
This means, as part of your preparation for the date, you may want to read a book, the newspaper, or cultivate a hobby.
Now that we’ve covered the basics, the idea is RINSE AND REPEAT.
With each stage of dating you build in a little more, assuming you like her and aren’t planning on trying to direct her into the friend zone (that’s a whole separate article).