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NINE // In your thirties, it can go one of two ways.
They should also be smarter than me () I would also like my person to at least on some level, get what I do for a living. There have also been some guys that are really cool with it and ask a lot of questions, which is refreshing. SIX // It’s really hard to find someone where there is chemistry on both a physical emotional level. If you find both, you more or less have yourself a unicorn, so try to keep that person around. how are you supposed to have a conversation if you do that? if that’s the case, no one is going to talk for a solid eight hours. I’m still figuring this out but I think the key is to put yourself first. EIGHT // It takes a really long time to get to truly know someone. It’s hard to let someone in, but it might actually be harder to really truly get to know someone. We wouldn't rush up to THEM and roar, "How's your marriage going? " Everyone knows that dating in your thirties is not the happy-go-lucky free-for-it-all it was when you were twenty-two and that the honest answer is more likely to be, "Actually, last night my married lover appeared wearing suspenders and a darling little Angora crop-top, told me he was gay/a sex addict/a narcotic addict/a commitment phobic and beat me up with a dildo," than, "Super, thanks.” ― Helen Fielding, “Ground rules, Tanner,” he growled. He sucked her lips, gently, as though he was sampling nectar on a delicate petal. A shallow hum escaped from within her in response to how he was making her feel. He was breathing heavier which was waking Anne’s primal needs. Why can't married people understand that this is no longer a polite question to ask? Then, he passionately kissed her, tickling her tongue with his. He would make all the decisions, and he would be strong and dependable. She would be sneaky and not tell him exactly what was going on. I will be on the other side of this door, waiting for her. He would swoop in like Tarzan swinging on a vine, rescue them from whatever situation they found themselves in, and be their hero. But they did not see his inability to allow them to disagree or have an opinion. So, they would be a perfect match—until he would see the other side of a passive, compliant woman.