Failure at dating
After contemplating this particular paradox, discussing it, and working on it for an awesome amount of time, I'd like to share my thoughts about it with you.
I assume that if you've read this far, then you probably see yourself as smarter than the average guy.
But unfortunately, this smart mind of yours can actually be WORSE than USELESS when it comes to a key area of life: WOMEN AND DATING. It can actually be like having a hammer when you need to tighten a bolt.
If you use the tool you have for the job, you'll most likely make the situation WORSE.
And you've probably realized that your smart mind gives you an advantage over others in many areas of life...
Your smart mind gives you a particular type of advantage that can be very, very powerful in life: YOU'RE USUALLY RIGHT.
You probably realized at a young age that you saw things differently, and thought differently than others in school...
(OR they let the "problem situation" destroy them...
more on that later.) Well, the BITCH about being wrong when it comes to women and dating is THERE'S NOWHERE TO RUN AND HIDE. A smart guy just assumes that his logic must be good... But when no success comes, it really starts to become mentally difficult.
What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... He looks for INFORMATION to help him solve the problem. Nod silently if you've ever figured out a creative way to avoid facing something in your life. NEWS JUST IN: Women don't feel ATTRACTION for men who make them THINK. So what do most smart guys do when they first meet a woman? Get this: A monkey sitting at a typewriter will type the collected works of Shakespeare before you will make a woman feel ATTRACTION for you by engaging her in logical conversation.
When you start a logical conversation with a woman you've just met, you are basically taking out a NEON SIGN that says "I don't get it when it comes to women" and putting it on your head.