It might be tempting to want to write these guys off as being selfish or inconsiderate.Some of them very well may be, but not all of them!It's your opportunity to feel into how much of a dealbreaker his oral reluctance is for you.Different women will have different standards, but if he says something demeaning like, “it’s just weird,” or "it tastes gross," he’s probably not a dude who deserves to get into your pants anyways.But imagine if you and your boo had legions of fans, regularly posted half-naked “fistpo” photos, and your relationship was open?
Here are seven tips for how to approach your next hookup and increase your chances of getting what you want.
Now, onto this week’s topic: what to do when a guy won't go down on you.
Q: I’m a single girl currently getting a lot of use out of my Tinder account.
This doesn’t have to be an awkward or clinical interaction though! Try playing around with different ways of putting it into words when you’re on your own, until you find something that feels comfortable to you.
Some examples include, “I’d love to feel your tongue between my legs” or “how about you do me and then I do you?