Senior girl dating a freshman guy college
I'm not so comfortable with the age difference between the two of them. Set aside some time one day to discuss it with her, but keep in mind: she's not in trouble; you are just concerned about what may happen.I want to be able to chat about this with her, without her totally dismissing what I have to say. Maybe go out on a lunch date or picnic, something nice that says, "I love you, so let's talk and spend some time together." She may not understand at her age that even a couple years can be drastic for teens in terms of mental development, maturity, experience, and what they want to spend their time doing.The best thing to do is show you support her but also are just worried.It would also be a good idea to meet him, just to make sure he is a responsible young man.Just talk to your daughter make sure she knows what it is that is concerning you so much but don't try to push him out of her life, more than likely she already knows she may only have her freshman year with him.
I started dating my boyfriend when I was 16 and he was 19.Talk to her like you would one of your friends in this situation.My parents told me that I couldnt date a guy that was older than me and I continued to see him behind their backs.Talk with your daughter and set boundaries together. That’s where all this bad behavior is coming from, but a 14 year old dating is perfectly fine.The more you try and control the more they'll push the boundaries. That’s when they start learning about their future and what not to do. Okay as a senior in highschool, we would consider the guy in the equation to basically be a pedophile. Senior boys aren't so good for naive young freshman girls. Your daughter will be upset but trust me, you'll be thanked for it later. I have had experience with a guy from 9th, 10th, 11th, and now 12th and it seems to be that the juniors are normally the ones worse for freshman girls.