Winks and flirts online dating
Some of us sit back shyly and wait for them to make the move if they are interested (passive approach).
Me, I toggle between cautious and active, depends on the situation and person and how interested I am (and how many drinks I’ve had! Unfortunately, as most of you will already know, Ottawa guys are impossible. Essentially, flirting is showing interest in another but not actually coming out and saying it. Some flirt by challenging and teasing the other person (you know like in elementary school). The type of flirting does vary across cultures, especially when it comes to eye contact and personal space. So that was Italy, most Mediterranean and Latin American countries are pretty much the same.
If you have a woman engaged and flirting, but you can tell she is slightly nervous, it’s a sign she is into you. Therefore they may freely reveal lots of private information with little worry because there is no attraction to be lost. In this case I would need to hear more about what information was actually exchanged to give a good assessment as to whether she was interested. When I am flirting with a guy, I want to seal the deal and lock him down.
BUT if he eagerly responds to my invites, I’m over it.
If I don’t do it in real life, why would I do it online? As Washingtonian John, 27, explains it, “if I get a wink, it’s like a woman smiled at me from across the bar.
I like the encouragement, and then I’ll follow up if I am interested. ” But smart daters know there’s also a potential downside, too.